HARDNESS OF HEART AND COMPASSION
‘The magnitude of her sorrow was
also the magnitude
of her compassion for others in
trouble’.[1]
Tsuneo Yoshikuni on Elizabeth
Musodzi
This
week in the Church’s calendar we had the memorial of Our Lady of Sorrows. It is
a moment when the camera zooms in on the figure standing at the cross of Jesus
as, ‘aloud and in silent tears’, he writhes in agony. Mary can do nothing to
help her dying son. All she can do is be there and absorb his pain by suffering
with him. That is the meaning of the word com-passion. It is not easy and
relatives visiting their sick family member in hospital find it hard to just be
there. Often they try to fill the emptiness they feel with words of comfort that
express easy promises. It is just too hard to face the pain of the moment.
Elizabeth
Musodzi shows us there is a way. Her closest relatives were killed, some by
execution (Mbuya Nehanda was her aunt), during the Shona rising of 1896/7.
Virtually an orphan, she was sent to the new school run by the Dominican
sisters in Chishawasha. There she breathed in an atmosphere of faith which
gradually transformed the bitterness in her heart to a lively compassion for
others. Attuned to suffering she saw and felt the pain of women in the new
‘location’ in Salisbury (Harare) whose husbands failed to share their earnings
and support their families. One who remembered those days asserted, ‘Most
marriages survived because of this woman’.
Musodzi
used to tell the women about gardens and having an income of their own and not
being totally dependent on their husbands. And she showed this by example when
she rented a plot and produced maize, groundnuts, rice, pumpkins and rapoko. She did not stop there but went
on to advocate for classes in sewing and knitting, for a maternity clinic,
registering marriages and other improvements in the township. She started the
African Women’s Clubs with her friends and this included First Aid training.
This
was compassion in action and when her grandson, Leonard Chabuka, was asked by
Tsuneo Yoshikuni, a Japanese historian of early Harare, where she drew her
inspiration, the reply led Yoshikuni to write as above: ‘The magnitude of her
sorrow was also the magnitude of her compassion for others’.
It
is women Like Elizabeth Musodzi who unpack for us the message of Mary’s sorrow
as she stood by the cross.
20
Sept 2020 Sunday 25 A Is
55:6-9 Phil 1:20…27 Mt
20:1-16
[1] Yoshikuni T, Elizabeth Musodzi and the Birth of African
Feminism in Early Colonial Zimbabwe, Weaver and Silveira House, 2008, p 13
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