Friday, 31 May 2019

YOUR JOY WILL BE COMPLETE


YOUR JOY WILL BE COMPLETE John 16:23-28
June 1, 2019. St Justin Martyr (+165)

We have been journeying through Easter since 21 April and reading the Acts and John’s Gospel. Maybe we are getting a little tired of John, day after day! Maybe we are looking forward to getting back to Matthew, Mark and Luke where things happen and it is not endless words. But it would be a pity if we lose the accumulative effect of the discourses in John where he gradually builds up a relationship between the disciple and the Lord. We are being drawn, step by step, into the intimacy of life in the Trinity. ‘Where do you live?’ they had asked in chapter 1. Well here, in these last chapters, Jesus reveals that he lives in the Father and if anyone loves him that person will be drawn into this life in the Father and the Son through the Spirit.


Thursday, 30 May 2019

BLESSED IS SHE WHO BELIEVED


31 May 2019, Mary visits Elizabeth
BLESSED IS SHE WHO BELIEVED (Luke 1:39-56)

This is the first ‘missionary journey’.  Mary hastens to share the good news with Elizabeth. And Elizabeth is awed and responds, ‘Blessed is she who believed that the promise made to her by the Lord would be fulfilled’.  Elizabeth immediately recognises that Mary has embodied in her own response the whole promise of God in the former times of Abraham and all who followed him.  What is that promise? It is that human kind will now rise above its bleak concerns for security and survival to blossom in a new way of life that releases all the pent up hopes of generations.  Mary is the porta coeli, the one who opens the door to a new humanity where all will be fulfilled.


Saturday, 25 May 2019

THE POLITICS OF TENDERNESS


THE POLITICS OF TENDERNESS
These two nouns do not sit well together: politics and tenderness.  Politics is a competitive business where the one in leadership constantly has an eye on any threat to their position. Voters appear to like someone who is tough and resolute and not easily deflected from their goal. We saw a leader crumble yesterday because she dared to use the word ‘compromise’. Yet, courageously, she insisted on it and in her farewell speech she gave honour to the man who first inspired her with it.
We seem to like toughness. As kids – at least of my generation – we liked cowboys who burst through swing doors with both ‘six-guns’ blazing. Churchill saved, not just Britain, but arguably the world, from tyranny but his toughness.  Yes, there is a place for it.  But it is like a stone we find wedded to the ground: when you stop and turn it over you see softness and, even in the desert, life.
I am often astonished by parents of young children. A child, securely loved and with all they need available to them, will go into a tantrum and scatter their food, plate and all, to the four corners of the room. I expect, maybe from long forgotten experience, a harsh response.  But no, the parent says nothing and, after a time, quietly clears up the mess. She or he knows that this is some chaotic bursting forth of energy, some misstructured assertion of identity. The child is simply saying, ‘I exist! Take note!’ But I am touched by the tenderness of the parents’ response.
Jean Vanier, who died earlier this month, discovered tenderness was a royal road to healing. He lived for 56 years with people who had intellectual disabilities, people who could not express themselves in ways that most people could understand. Jean set out to help them live in conditions that resembled a home but he soon discovered that they, like the child referred to, used their new found security, to let out their pent up frustrations. Jean was confused, at first, and even felt anger rise within him. But he reflected and, like the good parent, he realised that this was their way of saying, ‘thank you, we have arrived, we are accepted and now we can be ourselves’.
Jean went on to develop the lessons he learnt in those early days and he wrote and spoke about them often. Eventually a model came to him and he would use it constantly to announce the good news he had learnt. The model was Jesus washing the feet of his friends. And Jean himself, giant of a man that he was, would get down on his knees and wash the feet of the handicapped people he lived with. People called him ‘an apostle of tenderness’ and so he was and he would extend his message to relations with other Christian communities (denominations, if you like) and other religions.  And his message could build peace even among nations.
Booting up the search engine in my head I look for examples in the world of politics and three examples appear. One was Angela Merkel inviting a million migrants, four years ago, to settle in Germany at the very moment such a welcome was urgently needed. A second example was the rock solid peace negotiated between France and Germany around 1949 after three bitter and devastating wars.  And the third was President Kennedy of the United States, the morning after the failed invasion of Cuba around 1961, saying on TV, ‘I made a mistake.’
Tenderness and compromise are the legacy of our religious traditions but they are often unwelcome attitudes in the tough world we now inhabit.        
26 May 2019               Easter Sunday 6 C
Acts 15:1-2, 22-29       Revelations 21:10-14, 22-23   John 14:23-29     

Saturday, 18 May 2019

AUTHORITY AND DELIGHT


AUTHORITY AND DELIGHT
There is a striking sentence in the segment of the Acts of the Apostles that we read this Sunday. ‘We hear that some of our members have disturbed you … they acted without any authority from us’.  It is the first time, as far as I know, such a sentiment occurs in the early Church and it suggests a growing awareness of a leadership responsibility. The ‘elders’ in Jerusalem realised that they had to decide: there was no one else to turn to. And, after discussion and discernment, they come out with a startling letter which begins; ‘It has been decided by the Holy Spirit and by us …’ Wow! What confidence!
But their use of their new found authority is not one sided.  It had to be received by the people for whom it was meant, in this case the pagans in Antioch.  The letter was read to them and we are told they received it ‘with delight’. In other words it said exactly what they hoped it would say. It resonated with their experience.
John Henry Newman, illustrious man of the Church in the nineteenth century, developed his teaching on the consent of the laity in matters of religion from what happened in the fourth century, whn most of the bishops taught something the laity did not accept, namely, the doctrines of Arius. The bishops had allowed themselves to be swayed by the emperor but the laity had an inner sense that they were wrong. And, as the century wore on, it became clear that the laity were right!
The lesson we draw from both instances is that any exercise of authority – be it on the part of the church or the state – has to be received and welcomed if it is to have lasting effect. The exercise of authority that is based on force simply produces compliance out of fear. It is a passive compliance and non-productive. The word ‘authority’ is derived from the Latin word ‘augere’ which means to increase, to grow. Authority is there to enable something that is beginning to blossom and flourish. That is what parental authority is supposed to do. If the exercise of authority does not help people to grow it is a waste of time and resources. Worse than that, it is a distortion of justice and holds people back from developing.
Nations, painfully and over years and decades, hammer out systems of democracy as a way of making sure leaders act in a way that resonates with people’s sense of what is needed for them to grow.  But, alas, we know, all too well, there are still leaders who block this painful endeavour and set their heart on denying people the ‘delight’ that is rightfully theirs.
19 May 2019   Easter Sunday 5 C
Acts 14:21-7   Revelation 21:1-5        John 13: 31-35    

Saturday, 11 May 2019

Jean Vanier

For a beautiful summary of Jean Vanier's life see https://www.larche.org/web/jeanvanier/home

CELEBRATING JEAN VANIER


CELEBRATING JEAN VANIER
Many tributes have been paid to Jean Vanier, the founder of the l’Arche communities for people living with intellectual disabilities, over the past few days since his death early on Tuesday morning (7 May). Jean came to visit us in Zimbabwe four times.  The first was in 1982 after I had written to him to say I had discovered l’Arche in Canada and a few of us wanted to start a community in Zimbabwe. We had two large gatherings and he told us what he had discovered from sharing his life with people living with disabilities. He came back in 1988 to lead a retreat at Silveira House and again in 1997 by which time we were ready to start our community of l’Arche in Harare and he formally opened it.  It happened to be a day when there were violent riots in town and the Canadian ambassador had her car stoned on the way to Waterfalls.  But we put politics aside and, with great joy, celebrated the birth of our community with Moses, Gerald and Irene.

Five years later he made his last visit and this time we tried to invite many people and hired the National Sports Centre. As well as l’Arche the communities of Faith and Light came from all over the country as well as Zambia and the Congo.  But we did not succeed in attracting many from outside our circle of friends as we were not good at publicity.

In all these visits Jean taught us again and again what he had learnt, namely, that we are called not only to care for people living with disabilities but to share our life with them. In other words we are invited to become friends.  He often used to say he started l’Arche (in 1964) to provide a home for Raphael and Philippe and care for them. But he soon discovered they were teaching him. In the secure atmosphere he had created for them they felt free, as in any family, to vent their angers and frustrations.  He was not expecting this and it challenged him sharply; he had to face the anger and frustration and even latent violence in his own heart. They healed him.  He became the Jean Vanier we knew – not through training he had received as an officer in the Canadian navy or through his becoming a professor of philosophy at Toronto University – but by discovering the gifts and beauty of people living with handicaps.

He often told us that he did this by ‘stopping’.   Instead of rushing around ‘doing things’, he would say, we need to stop, to spend time with vulnerable people, to listen to them (even if they do not speak) and to learn their language, that is, whatever way they can respond.  He told us he had to learn patience. He had to slow down and put aside the ways he had learnt in the navy and at the university.  He used to speak about a very wounded member of l’Arche, Eric, who was dumb, deaf, blind and in other ways physically as well as intellectually handicapped. The only way you could get a response from Eric was when you were giving him a bath and you took time to gently and tenderly wash him.  Then he would suddenly relax and all his tension would disappear.

Jean defined his vocation as ‘revealing the beauty of people who are wounded’. It is the sort of sentence you will not find even in the best meaning of our laws.  In fact many people will not even know what you are talking about.  Yet there it is: the cornerstone of l’Arche.  It is about helping people who are living with disabilities to discover their gifts and rejoice in them and share them with the world.

The best way we can honour the memory of Jean Vanier is to make his dream our dream and build on the foundations he laid.

12 May 2019               Easter Sunday 4 C
Acts 13: 14, 43-52      Revelation 7:9, 14-17              John 10:27-30



Saturday, 4 May 2019

PETER’S REAL ASSENT


PETER’S REAL ASSENT
We may wonder why, after signing off at the end of chapter 20, John - or someone in his circle – decided to add another chapter. The usual answer is that, after a high point at the end of chapter 6, Peter comes out rather badly in the latter part of the gospel, denying Jesus three times and then being sceptical about the empty tomb. He needed rehabilitation.  Besides, the churches associated with John seemed on the verge of going off on their own – ‘you do not need anyone to teach you’ (1 John 2:27).  So we have these three commissions to Peter cancelling, as it were, his three denials and reaffirming him as leader of the community.
The scene can be a good illustration of what we mean by coming to real conviction.  In an age when enthusiasm for the claims of reason was unsettling the faith of many Christians John Henry Newman wrote what he called a ‘Grammar of Assent’.  In this book he set out to show,
how ordinary people can arrive at certainty about things that are true, even if they may be hard put to demonstrate the validity of their reasoning.  The ways in which we reason about things, and try to evaluate and verify, are teased out in the book – and shown to be authentic and real, very personal, and far removed from the dry deductions of logical thought.[1]    
Newman says the process of coming to faith is the same for learned people as well as ‘Birmingham factory girls.’
One might object this was far from the case of Peter.  He was given proof: there was Jesus standing on the shore.  He did not have to ‘reason it out’.  It was overwhelmingly obvious he had failed and that now the relationship was restored. True. Yet still the process is the same. Peter came to a conviction, a ‘real assent’, through thinking but also through his own personal sense or feeling, about what was happening.  Everything came together for him so that the picture of him we have in the Acts of the Apostles is of a man full of courage and confidence – a far cry from the coward in the courtyard of the High Priest.
Easter is all about coming to conviction, to ‘real’ assent.  It is one thing to sing ‘Alleluia’.  It is quite another to draw down into my personal life the conviction that give courage and confidence to engage in the struggle for justice that stares at us today.    
5 May 2019                 Easter Sunday 3 C
Acts 5:27-32, 40-41     Revelations 5:11-14     John 21:1-19


[1] Dermot Mansfield, Heart Speaks to Heart, The Story of Blessed John Henry Newman, p 160